Our Bodies Are Not Ours Nor Mine
When we have intrusive thoughts on appropriate things and thirst for porn, sometimes we think that those thing can be ours even though mentally. Or even desiring it to be real.
We see people's organs or their pose or their physical attribute. We are hungry for them and we want them to taste and to please our mind and hearts.
But, the truth is none of those are us. Those things in whatever forms and attribute are not ours. We can't have them nor can we do anything we like about them. Because, they are God's.
Our bodies are the temples of God. They are where the Holy Spirit dwell into. That's why piercing and tattos are impermissible. That's why misusing them and abusing the very loan that God has lend to us are not permissible as well. Because, they are not ours in the first place. And would never be.
When we understand this, we understand that thinking of others' bodies is impermissible and impossible to do since they are God's. We can't covet what are not ours in the first place.
When we undestand this we can covet less, we can lust less, and we can set our eyes to what really matters. To set and dedicate ourselves to godly things.